Searching For My Path...

                            

For the past few years I have struggled greatly with trying to find myself, and always having the feeling of being LOST. I know it has a lot to do with my age, and I have even heard this is the years of finding one’s self.  After realizing that I couldn't be the only person feeling this way, I wanted to offer some help and possible encouragement for anyone experiencing the same things as I do. Enjoy!

1. 10 things to remember

http://www.marcandangel.com/2014/03/19/10-things-to-remember-when-you-feel-lost-and-alone/

2. Change your mind

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/valley-girl-brain/201310/if-youre-lost-in-your-20s

3. The hardest years of our lives

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/wendy-lustbader/aging-20s-our-hardest-years_b_1832180.html

4. Some inspirational words

http://www.jollynotes.com/inspirational-verses/loneliness-verses/

Jesus vs. Religion

I came across a video called, “Why I Hate Religion, but Love
Jesus” by Jefferson Bethke. This young man told his opinion and story through
poetry, which was quite powerful. In the video Bethke brings up points on why religion
is not the thing we should strive for, but we should strive to gain a better
relationship with Jesus.

While watching I could relate my life and beliefs to what he
was saying. He was basically saying that religion can sometimes allow a person
to forget about what’s really important. Sometimes a person can get caught up
with the religion aspect by doing everything that is “right”, but forget about what
is really important which is gaining a relationship with Jesus and getting the
chance to live by His grace.

Now, I want to clear up that he isn't saying that religion
is “bad”, but he is trying to say that if you just do things religiously, but
do not concentrate and gain a lasting relationship with Jesus. Than you still
aren't any good. In my opinion religion is the gate way to getting to know
Jesus, and a tool to help bring others to Christ.  But, when religion becomes the main focus and
Jesus is put into the corner, is when I believe religion becomes wrong. Jesus
should be the focus always, and we should all be striving to gain a stronger
relationship with Christ.  Over all I really
loved this point that Bethke made. So, I encourage all of you to check it out
and tell me what you all think. Always remember you only have one life, one
Chance so make the best of it!

Getting to Know Him

                                

Hey everyone! I wanted to provide you all with some tools that can help you with your spiritual growth with God, whether you are an unbeliever or believer. If you are unbelievers, that take this opportunity to check out my links below, and I pray it sparks your interests and allows you to want to know more about Jesus. Also for the believers I hope this can help you to feel whole again, and grow spiritually. Let me know what you think!

1. Studying the Bible

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yrF0hFJ8BHo

2. Growing in Christ

http://www.oneplace.com/ministries/love-worth-finding/read/articles/how-to-be-a-growing-christian-8449.html

3. Daily Inspirations

http://www.crosswalk.com/

4. Kind words

http://www.christnotes.org/

College Student + Finances = ?

                           

                                                  

I thought it would be a great ideal to post some guides and tips to help college students and young adults to better handle their finances. I hope some these can help you!

1. Money saving tips

http://www.fastweb.com/financial-aid/articles/the-30-money-saving-tips-for-students

2. Budget template

http://www.vertex42.com/ExcelTemplates/college-budget.html

3. Great banking options

http://www.mybanktracker.com/news/comparing-student-checking-accounts-top-10-banks

4. Financial Tips!
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/wiseradvisorcom/7-financial-tips-every-co_b_5190749.html

Growing Pains: The Young Adult Version

Hey everyone! I know it’s been a while, but I've been distracted lately by my busy schedule. And today I just want to RANT!

So, I am a 21 year old student currently living with my parents and two little sisters. I know deep down inside it’s beyond a blessing to have the opportunity to live at home with no financial responsibilities when it comes to shelter, food, and my car. But, inside I am constantly screaming because I want out of here. I know I might sound ungrateful, but I’m not. I just feel as though I need some space, and some time to grow on my own a bit.

I know what you’re thinking. Why don’t you move? Why don’t you go and find your own place? Well, the answers to those questions are… I can’t. At least right now I can’t. I've been spoiled and very blessed, and I do not have the financial means to get out on my own. And quite honestly I might not be fully ready to go out on my own completely.

 So, even though I’m having these growing pains and want to break free of my parents and gain some much needed independence. I know I have to be smart. I want to take this blessing that God has given me and make the best of it. I know there are many people my age that would love the opportunity to be in my place. Even though I do see myself moving in the future, right now I am concentrating on saving, paying off my credit cards, and training myself to make smart financial choices in the future.

 I  know I totally complained at the beginning of my post, but I want to encourage anyone who is in my position and who is dealing with the same “growing pains” to be smart and try not to rush into anything. Thank God for the opportunity and begin planning for your future. Any who! Remember you only have one life, one Chance so make the best of it!

                                                                                                                  Much Love,

                                                                                                                           Asia:)